So the kids are home now, they had their first visit in which they saw both their parents for the first time in almost 6 months. N has been fine, he's quite the trooper but also a little young to process what is going on. B on the other hand spent the first hour sobbing, when pizza came she took a break, then it was back to sobbing. She has now taken to talking about her "father" every 5 seconds, making sure we knew she didn't want to come back here and that she was sad to be here. It's hard to hear that, I suppose K and I now feel like every other parent who's kids have absolutely NO idea how much they have sacrificed for them. Thankfully I have this blog so i can say all of the things that I cannot say to the kids.
here we go..
Things you cannot say even though you really want to....
I don't know your dad and I don't want to.
No he's not a rock star, he's a selfish pig who gave you up for drugs
Most likely he wont show up next week, so don't hold your breath.
Yes, he gave you candy because he has no regard for the fact that we feed you healthy
He doesnt know that because HE IS NOT AROUND
If you think you'll have it better with him, think again.
No I dont know your mom and I dont want to.
Saw your grandma? Ask her if she wants the trash bags back that she brought all your stuff over in.
Your parents are fucking assholes with zero regard as to how you will feel seeing them and not being able to go home with them.
fuck this shit.
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